Here’s something to try: think of one person who you consider an enemy. Go on their Facebook page and look through their photos. See if you have any mutual friends. Look at the messages left for them on their birthday. You know what makes them different from you, but what makes you the same?
"Jesus the Homeless" by Timothy Schmalz. Installed in 2014 on the front yard of the Dominican Order Convent at Santo Domingo's Ciudad Colonial, Dominican Republic. Photo by Mariordo (Mario Roberto Durán Ortiz), CC BY-SA 4.0 <https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0>, via Wikimedia Commons